COURTESY

is having respectful, polite behavior.

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“If a man be gracious and courteous to strangers, it shows he is a citizen of the world, and that his heart is no island cut off from other lands, but a continent that joins to them.”

Sir Frances Bacon (1561-1626);
philosopher, essayist, statesman

“Courtesy is as much a mark of a gentleman as courage.”

Theodore Roosevelt (1858-1919);
26th U.S. President

“Life be not so short but that there is always time for courtesy.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882);
Philosopher, Poet, Author, Essayist

“Enthusiasm is the mother of effort, and without it nothing great was ever achieved.”

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882);
Philosopher, Poet, Author, Essayist

“Tact is the ability to make a person see lightning without letting him feel the bolt.”

Orlando A. Battista (1917-1995);
chemist, author

“I appreciate people who are civil, whether they mean it or not. I think: Be civil. Do not cherish your opinion over my feelings. There's a vanity to candor that isn't really worth it. Be kind.”

Richard Greenberg (born 1958);
playwright

“Among the qualities of mind and heart which conduce to worldly success, there is one, the importance of which is more real, and which is generally underrated in our day...It is courtesy.”

Herbert Schiffer

“Courtesy is a silver lining around the dark clouds of civilization; it is the best part of refinement and in many ways, an art of heroic beauty in the vast gallery of man's cruelty and baseness.”

Bryant H. McGill author, poet, broadcaster

“Although the world is full of suffering, it's full also of the overcoming it.”

Helen Keller (1880-1968);
author, lecturer, activist

“I shall pass this way but once; any good that I can do or any kindness I can show to any human being; let me do it now. Let me not defer nor neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again.”

Etienne de Grellet (1773-1855);
Quaker missionary

“Intelligence and courtesy not always are combined; Often in a wooden house a golden room we find.”

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882);
poet

“A little kindness from person to person is better than a vast love for all humankind.”

Richard Dehmel (1863-1920);
poet, playwright

“Courtesy is the one coin you can never have too much of or be stingy with.”

John Wanamaker (1838-1922);
businessman, entrepreneur

“There is a courtesy of the heart; it is allied to love. From it springs the purest courtesy in the outward behavior.”

Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749-1832);
philosopher, scientist, author

“Courtesies of a small and trivial character are the ones which strike deepest in the grateful and appreciating heart.”

Henry Clay (1777-1852);
politician, orator

“The small courtesies sweeten life; the greater, ennoble it.”

Christian Nestell Bovee author, lawyer

“The greater man the greater courtesy.”

Alfred Tennyson, 1st Baron Tennyson (1809-1892);
poet laureate

“There can be no defense like elaborate courtesy. ”

Edward V. Lucas author

“We owe each other truth and courtesy - though truth is sometimes a real constraint and courtesy inconvenient.”

Max De Pree (born 1924);
author, former CEO of Herman Miller, Inc.

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Edie 3 months ago from New York

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Iyauna &Tionna 3 months ago from Alto

i opened the door for someone yesterday
chesnee 3 months ago from rusk

Courtesy is meaningless if you let others mistreat you. Other values must take precedence in such case. This is not to say that you should stop being courteous.
Anon Imus 4 months ago from Los Angeles

De tudo o que recebemos, com certeza a cortesia deve ser passada adiante, porque todos precisa de todos, até quem nos odeia. From everything we receive, surely the courtesy should be passed on, because everyone needs everyone, even those who dislike us.
Anderson over 2 years ago from Colatina - ES, Brasil

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