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I feel much respect for you. You are intelligent and you had a good contact with your father. These are gifts not many people have. I don't want to sound smart but everything that happens in life makes sense after a while although sometimes we cannot recognize the meaning first. And some things just hurt. I wish you can be strong and survive the pain.
Posted almost 3 years ago by Philipp S. from Groningen, Netherlands

It's nice to find someone who appreciates what they really have.
Posted over 4 years ago by Kirby from California, USA

Your father's sickness was a gift. Life is indeed measured not by the moments we breathe but by every moment that takes our breath away.
Posted over 4 years ago by Ciely A. from Cavite, Philippines

A sad but inspiring story. I also felt the same way before when my mom and my eldest brother died. I was in 4th grade when my mom died and was in 1st year high school when my brother died, it truly hurts me, because even for the last time, I wasn't able to say how much I love them. It was really too late for me. It became a lesson for me that I should have love them more and more from the start.
Posted over 4 years ago by Yel P. from Philippines

Thank you, you have helped me realise a lot.
Posted over 4 years ago by from

This is so touching I love reading it. I think everyone at a certain point has asked him/herself "why me?" I very much asked that question when my dad passed away. It is now three years but sometimes I found myself crying until I had my first son and named him after my late dad. I remember the love my dad shared with me and my whole family and I now count it a blessing to have learned that from him and I share it fully with my son and wife.

Posted almost 5 years ago by Lazarus from Jinja, Uganda

Our blessings outweigh our troubles...something I will always remember.
Posted almost 5 years ago by Teen F. from Delaware, USA

Thank you. Your story challenged me to improve in my relationship with my parents. It reminds me how precious they are in my life. You lifted up my spirit!
Posted almost 5 years ago by Jenny V, from Philippines

It is our attitude at the bigning of a trouble that determines it's outcome. Instead of crying "WHY ME" one should say "TRY Me." A truly uplifting and inspiring story that underscores the need to live and spread love each moment.
Posted almost 5 years ago by Sukhsohit S. from Chandigarh, India

This gives me the idea that "Love even if it hurts, and continue to love even if it hurts no more."
Posted almost 5 years ago by Ruby S. from Philippines

I've lost my uncle in an accident last April...I really feel sad at that time...but i've realized that there are still a lot of people around me who need love...and now I've been trying to love everybody and everything around me.
Posted almost 5 years ago by r.i. from philippines

This story really made me think about my life and it has gave me a whole new perspective of things. Thanks!
Posted almost 5 years ago by Gen S. from New Jersey, USA

touching
Posted almost 5 years ago by Esther M from Pretoria, South Africa

It was very sad if we have to lose the person that we love.
Posted almost 5 years ago by syah from

My dad died of cancer too when I was in 3rd grade. I was young then. You are lucky that you were able to build a relationship with him and that somehow he became a part of what you had to go through in life, may it be good times and bad times.
I wish I had that chance so I wouldn't be feeling as if all along, all this time, something was missing in my life...but I guess we gain some, and then we lose some...

Posted almost 5 years ago by Lydda G. from Guam

Count your blessings not your troubles. Very inspiring story.
Posted almost 5 years ago by Patricia from Indonesia

inspiring
Posted about 5 years ago by V K GUPTA from India

touching...
Posted about 5 years ago by MALU from INDIA

...i now know that LOVE is the greatest key that can break the hardest heart so whenever you got hurt, just look for some one to show love.
Posted about 5 years ago by nelson benjamin from nigeria

I really enjoy reading those inspirational words!! It gives me some points for me to handle all the difficulties I've been experiencing now!! Thank you so much!!
Posted about 5 years ago by from

good way of looking at things... i believe in this, no matter what happens, it happens for a reason, and the reason is always for our GOOD ....

nothing is forever in this world but LOVE... the LOVE which gives, also takes...





Posted about 5 years ago by from

Something to Lose

It was the summer before my freshman year of college. I was at my internship when I got the 911 page from my mom and a message saying, “Come home immediately after work.”

A bit anxious, I packed up my things and left for the day beating both my folks home. When they walked in the door my mom began to speak but fell into tears. It was then that my dad proceeded to tell me he had cancer. I smirked and gave a half smile of disbelief all too common with that type of incredulous news while my heart grew cold.

My entire life I've shown more emotion than most, at that moment I had none. For three days, I felt nothing and then I took a drive. After a number of tears and selfish “Why me's?” I finally figured it out. It wasn't about God taking my dad away from me, it wasn't even about him possibly losing his life. It was about having had a father in the first place and a wonderful life. It was then that I realized that when we lose something we all too often forget that we were already given that something to lose.

Weeks passed and under the knife he went. Nine months later I brought him home my first college report card and in one month he will watch me graduate summa cum laude. I'm fortunate that he has been and will be there for these events, but I'm even more fortunate to have found appreciation for every other moment we've shared.


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